Compassion and Kindness

As we prepare for the Easter holiday, which signifies the death and rising of Christ, I am humbled by his compassion and kindness for others.  Especially those who persecuted him.  I don't want to freak out those of you who are not familiar with my faith by going "churchy" on you, just trust me and read on. 

I was asked to speak to the faculty of Ripon Christian School, Parker's school, a couple of weeks ago.  The theme for the year is Just Like Him and each month there is a subtopic.  The subtopic for March is Compassion and Kindness.  Here is what I shared with that day...

My parents were both educators.  My dad for 30 years.  My mom for 25 years.  So I grew up hearing the stories about all the rotten things that their students had done.  They put the fear of God in us about acting or doing the things that those notty children did.  (so we learned how to do rotten things without getting caught)  I also learned when I was pregnant not to share any potential names because they were alwasy associated with a previous student. 

Honestly, the most specific lesson I learned was not from my parents regarding their students, but from the students my parents taught.  Specifically after my dad had passed away, there where several of his students who attend his services.  One in particular came up to me and said "You don't know me, but I was one of your dad's students.  He was more of a father to me than my own dad.  I have always wanted to meet you.  You are one of the luckiest people."  Now at that time I was not feeling very lucky.  I just lost my best friend.  However, her comments changed my emotions.  I indeed was very lucky.

You see, my parents were compassionate.  They made people feel as they were family.  Students, friends, neighbors, collegues.  It was a wonderful way to grow up.  Holidays always consisted of many "family" members. 

Compassion as defined by Thomas Merton is

"the keen awareness of the interdependence of all things."

I think this really sums it up.  We certainly have an interdependence on each other.
Ephesians 4:32 "Be kind and compassionate to another forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."

Anytime that God gives us the opportunity to role model to children he is giving us the greatest gift.  Children depend on us to not only tell them how to act, but to SHOW them how to act.  How to be JUST LIKE HIM.

One of the leadership principles of Compassion International is "Demonstrate Godly Character"  (you can learn more about Compassion International at the link below)
www.compassion.com

Colossians 3:12 "Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humilty, gentleness and patience."

Doug, myself, Mom and Dad at the Opreyland Hotel in Nasville, TN 1997

I thank my parents for being such wonderful role models.  I am blessed to have many people in my life that are compassionate and kind.  Please remember our Savior, Christ Jesus, as you put out your Easter baskets and hunt your eggs.  Have compassion, kindness and Live Life Out Loud.